Ysengrim's definitions

sexism

A discriminative attitude grounded on the gender criteria, and more specifically -our society being still what it is- a discriminative attitude towards women.

Sexism is the last pathetic reflex of declining patriarcal masculinity. Violent and stupid, or soft and systemic, sexism remains sexism...

by Ysengrim January 2, 2004

heterosexism

A discriminative attitude grounded on the sexual orientation criteria, and more specifically -our society being still what it is- a discriminative attitude towards gays and lesbians.

The heterosexism of certain definitions of the Urban Dictionnary really scares the shit out of me.

by Ysengrim January 2, 2004

crypto-lesbian

A lesbian who decided to keep her coming out strictly for herself and her intimates. Social conformity is not the only reason for the crypto-lesbian option. The thrill of dissimulating one's real nature to the social milieu can be a major incentive for such an option as well. Very often a crypto-lesbian is actually a discrete bisexual.

Daphne DuMaurier was a crypto lesbian.

by Ysengrim January 2, 2004

Fetish Night

A social gathering between urban people aiming at an explicit and casual display of their favorite fetish. Usually, at Fetish Night, the dressing code is stricly enforced: it is forbidden to look straight. Some Fetish Nights are public, others are very very private... but one can play by the rules at both.

The Betty Page Club organises it's renowned Fetish Night, every first saturday of the month from nine p.m. Dressing code and polite manners are strictly enforced.

by Ysengrim January 2, 2004

whipcracker

A dominatrix with a whip. Even if the whip stayed in the closet, the whipcracker remains perfectly recognizable. She is usually at the same time very angry, impossible to seduce, and the most beautiful person of the evening.

Believe it or not, her own choosen name was Mistress Bitch. She was a major whipcracker. I will love her forever.

by Ysengrim January 2, 2004

kink

A cardinal twisted sexual priority known as being very subjective, and suceptible to be misunderstood or stereotyped by others, including potential partners. Kinks are profoundly healthy, but very difficult to share properly.

You are a bi he-female, I am a bi she-male. So far, so good. I believe we can match our kinks.

by Ysengrim January 2, 2004

heterodominant bi

A bisexual who is more on the hetero side. An hetero bi-curious is often nothing other than an undiscovered heterodominant bi.

I am an heterodominant bi, and you?

by Ysengrim January 2, 2004