1 definition by Dilligas
Taken in Hand (sometimes referred to as TiH) in terms of sexual human relationships refers to a monogamous, heterosexual relationship which is male-led, and in which the female defers in matters of everyday life, as well as sexually, to her partner.
Somewhat confusingly TiH is still commonly referred to as “spanking”, since the physical action usually is precisely that.
by Dilligas April 10, 2008