had to do it to em' 

Used when a person does something so fly or unexpected, they need to reassure bystanders that said action didn't occur simply by chance, but out of habit. See don't hurt em.

John: "Damn hami, did you just have sex with all three of those triplets?"
Hamilton: "Actually only two, the third was taking care of my laundry, had to do it to em'."

Drake: "It's the first time I've smoked in like three months, sorry mom, had to do it to em'"

had to do it to em' by BA612 January 7, 2010

had it not been for 

Had it not been for means "only because of" something. Literally it means, for anything other than it, it wouldn't

Had it not been for her, he would have let it go

had it not been for by Chillydawns November 10, 2010

Had The Radish 

Vermont / New England saying for when an item or person is so messed up, broken, worthless that it is no longer useful and is essentially junk.

Yeah, he's HAD THE RADISH

Had The Radish by jescoelvis March 20, 2011

Had a bad day 

An excuse used by cowards, the morally bankrupt, and men with weak-chins to grant legal immunity. Often used by police officers and/or the Comissioner of the New South Wales Police Force.

"Did you hear about that cop that tied up that Aboriginal kid's hands behind his back and slammed him face-first into the ground?"
"Oh the cop just had a bad day."
"Are you fucking serious? He used excessive force you weak-chinned mud slug."

Had a bad day by Equity and Justice June 3, 2020

had words 

1. v. (past tense) To have played a bitterly divisive game of Words With Friends with someone, therefore becoming mortal enemies.

I used to be good friends with Bobby, but then we had words. Now whenever we see meet, we just let out insane karate kaias, and pummel each other with a tornado of kicks and punches.

had words by barry b March 21, 2013

had it in the ear 

to have been screwed over, to get the fuzzy end of the lollipop, to get a shitty deal

As heard in Iggy Pop's "Lust for Life" "I've had it in the ear before."
Another example: I really had it in the ear last night when I bought a dime bag full of oregano.

had it in the ear by Garfunkel Adison November 6, 2007

Had Me By The Balls 

This slang expression is used when someone is forced to do something they don't want to do, but have no choice in the matter.

She had me by the balls so I had to go along with her to see her mother.

Had Me By The Balls by wardswords November 26, 2016