A social science term that describes narrow repressive type of ideas about the female gender role, that defines femininity as exaggerated femininity

Holding or embracing traditional feminine attributes like empathy, passivity, patience and tenderness in order to prioritise caring for others to the detriment of their own health while minimising their own struggles.
She always puts her husbands feelings first and it’s really taking a toll on her mental health, I told her she could tell him he also has to change his attitude to save their relationship but she called me a cold woman for even suggesting that. Toxic femininity at its finest
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Willful ignorance, a heavy sense of entitlement with a refusal to take responsibility for one's own actions, encouraged by others with the same condition and reality shows. See: narcissism.
"We always got toxic femininity from the customers coming out of the yoga studio a few doors down." (true story)
by arf79 July 5, 2022
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A lesbian who is feminine. Yes, not all lesbians look masculine. Many fem lesbians have a hard time being seen as straight, because of the stud stereotypes. You’re

Sexuality doesn’t choose your likings of how to express yourself!
Person: You’re lesbian? You look really girly though?
Me: Im just a feminine lesbian
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Related to the I-Peeper - When the I-Peeper notices that the I-Feminine has totally homosexual and/or songs for the opposite sex on his Ipod. Common excuses are, "My wife put it on there!" 'Wife' can also be interchangeable with 'girlfriend', 'sister' or 'mom'. And deep down inside, the I-Peeper knows that he is dealing with a homosexual.
Skyler I-Peeper: "Oh my god, you listen to the Jonas Brothers!?"

Caleb I-Feminine: "Uhhh... no, my sister Lo-Lo put that on there! I swear!"

Skyler I-Peeper: "What a homo..."
by skylerh12 March 11, 2009
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A Feminine Weapon is a complete woman - 100% female. She's honest, charismatic, and ambitious. Armed with the ability to recognize darkness and shift energies with consciousness and light, she's bold and daring.

This woman-weapon is fully aware of her life desires and on a mission to fulfill them. She's compassionate and soulful, with a burning urge to share her passions with the world.

Her sultry nature crushes the Madonna-whore complex, as she's a balanced contradiction of angelic virtue and innate sensuality.

She's a gift to the world.
Not only is Maria a beautiful person, but she's also talented, witty and fearless. She's a Feminine Weapon.
by Guesslynn November 4, 2013
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The penis of a pre-op transgender woman. Described as feminine because:
1. It's on a woman.
2. Feminizing hormones often change the anatomy and functionality of the penis. (eg. it doesn't get as hard, it doesn't really ejaculate, and it has a different mouthfeel)

The term was further popularized by the YouTuber ContraPoints who discusses the term in the video Tiffany Tumbles. This definition is almost taken almost verbatim from her video.
It's not gay for a guy love a trans woman, because she has a feminine penis.
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A social science term that describes narrow repressive type of ideas about the female gender role, that defines femininity as exaggerated feminine traits like being sensitive, emotional, having a perfect appearance, and so forth.

One can be feminine without being toxic.

Some beliefs of toxic femininity are:

- Putting your hands on, abusing, and physically assaulting men and then using your "woman card" to get out of being hit back or getting in trouble.

- Body shaming (e.g. who's butt is bigger, who's ugly, who's fat, who's too skinny, etc.).

- Giving people sex and affection in return for money ("Gold Digger").

- Prioritizing your appearance above everything else in your life.

- Jealousy towards other women
Toxic Femininity used in a sentence:

Woman: I don't need your toxic femininity to tell me how to look and that I need a man.

Toxic Femininity used in a scenario:

A woman hits a man for sitting with his legs spread, the man hits back.
Woman: Hey! You can't hit a woman!
Man: You hit me first, it was self defense.
Woman and other people: Coward!
by jimble.x January 25, 2019
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