The instigator thought everyone who's deposits she took or interfered with was as soft, forgiving, and silly as her.
by The Original Agahnim January 30, 2022
Someone who outdoors a kiss ass at what a kiss ass is known for, to the point it isn't called kissing ass with an instigator, its called pleasing or even claims of slavery by the instigator against the other person.
The one major difference between a kiss ass and an instigator is a kiss ass doesn't claim to be anybody's slave, despite doing things just as dehumanizing for other people. An instigator always says they do what they're doing to please other people, but thinks other people are the kiss asses, when really its all similar behavior.
by Solid Mantis December 1, 2019
by Solid Mantis July 31, 2019
a person who escalates a situation.
boy 1: Yo mama
boy 2: What did you say about my mama?
instigator: Oooh, he talking bout yo mama. Man i wouldn't take that if i was you!
messy agitator troublemaker provocateur meddler
boy 2: What did you say about my mama?
instigator: Oooh, he talking bout yo mama. Man i wouldn't take that if i was you!
messy agitator troublemaker provocateur meddler
by One Zooted Individual April 1, 2009
To start a conflict between other people just so you can watch. Can be between friends, between enemies, or between friends and enemies. Usually involves saying "he said she said you suck!" or some other much more colorful variant. Occasionally falls under the subtle art of interpreting a comment as incorrectly as is plausible.
Drew: "Why do you look so angry, Jordan?"
Akira: "I heard someone say the other day that Jordan doesn't like you, Drew."
Drew: "WHAT!"
Jordan: "Wait, I never said..."
Akira: "...Didn't you wonder where your milkshake went the other day, Jordan? Drew stole it."
Jordan: "WHAT!"
Akira: "That's cuz Drew thinks your haircut is ugly."
Jordan: "Oh really?!!"
Akira: "...And wants to challenge you to a duel."
Drew: "Whoa Akira, why are you trying to instigate?!"
Akira: "I heard someone say the other day that Jordan doesn't like you, Drew."
Drew: "WHAT!"
Jordan: "Wait, I never said..."
Akira: "...Didn't you wonder where your milkshake went the other day, Jordan? Drew stole it."
Jordan: "WHAT!"
Akira: "That's cuz Drew thinks your haircut is ugly."
Jordan: "Oh really?!!"
Akira: "...And wants to challenge you to a duel."
Drew: "Whoa Akira, why are you trying to instigate?!"
by Silver415 May 4, 2010
Punk: Yo, wanna fight bro?! I bet I can beat you up in a second!
Guy: Dude, stop being an instigator.
Guy: Dude, stop being an instigator.
by Acoolboy September 16, 2014
Let's use the instigator to keep those burglars out of our yard!
by Kyle Gamber May 9, 2008