chaleria

Yiddish term for a shrew or evil and obnoxious woman. The Yiddish equivalent of bitch. The term likely has its origin from "cholera."

Rivka is a real chaleria. Do you see how she treats her husband? Like he is a shmuck!

by Lotusflower April 08, 2007

pronoia

The delusion that people think better of you than they actually do. The opposite of paranoia.

Phil thinks that he is indispensable at work and that his superiors and colleagues adore him. Sadly, this is a case of pronoia since he is totally incompetent.

or

Melanie has a case of pronoia because she thinks everyone looks up to her, when in reality, people think she's quite obnoxious!

by Lotusflower March 03, 2007

flung

Describes a fling that is completely over and done.

Liliana: What every happened to that young, cute bartender you were seeing.
Allie: Oh ya, that fling has flung.

by Lotusflower August 27, 2007

Organically Overlap

Term used by new age and/or granola types to describe an accidental meeting or spending time together without previously having made a plan.

I have yoga later, but we will probably organically overlap at one of the greenpeace meetings.

or

Jenika did not want to make a specific plan to see him again, although she was open to organically overlapping with him sometime in the future.

by Lotusflower February 15, 2007

platonic energy

Used to describe a lack of romantic chemistry. Term most often used by new age or granola types.

After their date, the yoga instructor told Sandy that he felt they had good platonic energy, but that he did not feel a romantic connection.

by Lotusflower February 15, 2007

Player-Stayer Complex

Psychological term describing a woman who wants her man to be simultaneously: a) charming and unavailable and b) completely committed. Basically, the woman's version of the madonna-whore complex. Leads to perpetual state of dissatisfaction with men.

Jennifer has a total Player-Stayer complex. She either goes for nice guys and gets bored, or goes for total sleazes and is disgusted. Good luck finding her a man!

by Lotusflower February 15, 2007

Pacing Error

Common mistake made in dating whereby one party tries to move the relationship forward too quickly.

Martin said he loved her on the second date. What a major Pacing Error. She would have gone out with him again, but now she is really creeped out.

by Lotusflower February 15, 2007