Aileen's definitions

collar

Besides the common definition, a BDSM symbol of attachment of a submissive to a Dominant through collar made of metal, leather, or other material. Similar to a wedding band in vanilla society. Most collars are equipped with rings where a leash or restrain can be attached, like a dog's collar.

Wearing his collar to sleep was uncomfortable, but it reminded John all of the time that his Mistress loved and owned him, and he felt safe.

by Aileen April 21, 2003

Submissive

A person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person. A submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped, etc.).

Janet was a submissive in bed, but she knew how to stand up for herself when her boss tried to push her around.

by Aileen April 21, 2003

Domme

female dominant in a BDSM relationship. see wordDom/word

Gina is a Domme, but she enjoys being the bottom once in a while.

by Aileen April 21, 2003

snuff

1. Fetish involving corpses (real or simulated) or death (necrophilia)
2. (less common) Fetish involving sexual contact with unconcious, sleeping, or heavily sedated individuals (usually women)

Tim likes his one-night stands to be as still as possible during their encounters-- maybe he's into snuff, too.

by Aileen April 21, 2003

play piercing

A BDSM practice; puncturing the skin of the body, genitals, nipples, and less often, the face with hygenic (hypodermic) needles for pleasure and temporary decoration. Afterwards the needle is removed and the wound is allowed to heal. (Unlike regular piercing, which is intended for the insertion of jewelry.)

Even though play piercing can be dangerous, Ruth had been very interested in needles since she'd had her lip peirced.

by Aileen April 21, 2003