commonly used when someone is very pissed off at someone else, and doesn't wanna say anything and the other person automatically says are you mad at me?
(texting)
Me: I'm in a bad mood. nothing makes sense right now.
Person 1: Boo hoo! the world revolves around you.
me: whatever. I have to go. take a shower or do anything else.
Person 1: are you mad at me?
me: *silence*
Person 1: I'm sorry I didn't mean it!
Me: I'm in a bad mood. nothing makes sense right now.
Person 1: Boo hoo! the world revolves around you.
me: whatever. I have to go. take a shower or do anything else.
Person 1: are you mad at me?
me: *silence*
Person 1: I'm sorry I didn't mean it!
by Rea=P December 2, 2008
Boyfriend: "I'm sorry I did that babe"
Girlfriend: "Whatever, It doesn't matter"
Boyfriend: "No talk to me"
Girlfriend: "Whatever, It doesn't matter"
Boyfriend: "No talk to me"
by TheOneWhoGotCheatedOn March 14, 2010
by BigTD March 24, 2020
The American English equivalent to the common, polite Thai expression, "mai pen rai", meaning "it doesn't matter"; an easily accessible communication tool for re-grounding in the midst of a circular, escalating, non-productive, manipulative, or highly emotional argument.
When one partner calmly terminates with "Whatever" (humorous, non-aggro Valley Girl accent, one eye roll, and heavy sigh acceptable), it allows both participants to remember that their separate "ego chatter" and the subsequent discomfort of those primitive "fight or flight" endocrine hormones surging now through them - is an illusion, all Maya.
"Whatever" is the new Western mantra to allow those in our culture to wake up, surrender, let go of the futile need to be "right", to sit in the silence of the moment and return to the underlying reality of love, unity, and connection. Words are increasingly inadequate in this age of “The Quickening.” We have evolved much faster than our spoken language. A simple, compassionately delivered "Whatever" can still that inner turmoil, allow deep breathing to return, help each partner to regain balance and perspective, and reconnect to each other in a more profound and constructive way, through touch, music, art, dance, and lovemaking. Try it! Although many define the term as negative, harsh, cowardly, or maddening, it doesn't have to be! It's not that way in Thailand. Look at it from a different angle.
When one partner calmly terminates with "Whatever" (humorous, non-aggro Valley Girl accent, one eye roll, and heavy sigh acceptable), it allows both participants to remember that their separate "ego chatter" and the subsequent discomfort of those primitive "fight or flight" endocrine hormones surging now through them - is an illusion, all Maya.
"Whatever" is the new Western mantra to allow those in our culture to wake up, surrender, let go of the futile need to be "right", to sit in the silence of the moment and return to the underlying reality of love, unity, and connection. Words are increasingly inadequate in this age of “The Quickening.” We have evolved much faster than our spoken language. A simple, compassionately delivered "Whatever" can still that inner turmoil, allow deep breathing to return, help each partner to regain balance and perspective, and reconnect to each other in a more profound and constructive way, through touch, music, art, dance, and lovemaking. Try it! Although many define the term as negative, harsh, cowardly, or maddening, it doesn't have to be! It's not that way in Thailand. Look at it from a different angle.
Valerie: Todd, when I'm calmly trying to tell you for the umpteenth time what my basic needs are, why must you always turn the conversation around, change the subject, and start blaming me for something I'm not even talking about? Why is it always about you and your needs?
Todd: About my needs!? Oh! Like when you had to stay in bed all morning and too damn lazy to move, you started yelling at me at the top of your lungs when I was in the kitchen, screaming at me to take the trash cans out to the curb? Who is the bad guy here!! Huh? Can you ever take responsibility for your shit?!!
(heated exchange back and forth going nowhere)
Valerie: Whatever...
Valerie: (Wordless now, she reaches out to touch and hold Todd's hand, then embraces him, gets up and turns some soft music on, lights a candle, smiles at Todd, lights some incense. Todd starts to relax and they both shrug and start laughing and then...)
Todd: About my needs!? Oh! Like when you had to stay in bed all morning and too damn lazy to move, you started yelling at me at the top of your lungs when I was in the kitchen, screaming at me to take the trash cans out to the curb? Who is the bad guy here!! Huh? Can you ever take responsibility for your shit?!!
(heated exchange back and forth going nowhere)
Valerie: Whatever...
Valerie: (Wordless now, she reaches out to touch and hold Todd's hand, then embraces him, gets up and turns some soft music on, lights a candle, smiles at Todd, lights some incense. Todd starts to relax and they both shrug and start laughing and then...)
by kamakinky March 12, 2010
1. You just lost and argument and have nothing else logical to say to support your side
2.I think Devin Mays is the best thing since sliced bread
2.I think Devin Mays is the best thing since sliced bread
1.Stan: I don't think this is my son.
Jill: yes he is!
Stan: No he definitely isn't.
Jill: I swear he is!
Stan: But the baby is black, and I'm not.
Jill: Whatever!
2. Dean: Have you seen Devin?
Sam: whatever!
Dean: Agreed.
Jill: yes he is!
Stan: No he definitely isn't.
Jill: I swear he is!
Stan: But the baby is black, and I'm not.
Jill: Whatever!
2. Dean: Have you seen Devin?
Sam: whatever!
Dean: Agreed.
by Dmaysing March 29, 2012
Word that is used by people when they are wrong and they cant admit it. Specially used by lozer cheerleaders or hypocrits to end a fight.
by Sylvia August 15, 2008
Whatever: a word used in instances where the user has no logical or superior response to a stimulus they do not like. Often used by bitches. for further description look under Bitch, Retard, Wimp, or Spoiled-Rotten
Matt: Grow up! You don't have a drivers license, car, job, clue, or goal in life and you're still use everyone around you and treat them like shit! YOU'RE A BITCH!
Katie: Whatever
Katie: Whatever
by K8ECoughlinizAbitch April 8, 2009